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Personally chosen by Byron himself, each girl had to fill certain requirements. “I’m looking for that innocent girl who breaks out of her shell and turns into a total nymph,” says Byron. “New girls can be a dime a dozen, so I try to choose the ones who will finish their scene and be hungry for more.” “Naughty Noobies 2” has some of the freshest, hottest newcomers to adult entertainment. Whether they are cute and quiet like Thalia Palmer, bubbly and horny like Ashlynn Leigh and Kaylee Hilton, or seductive like Imani Rose and Jasmine Blaze, the noobies are chosen because they spark Byron’s interest. Maybe it is the soft skin, the braces, or the fact that these girls suck and ride cock like they have something to prove… whatever the reason they are definitely worth keeping an eye on. Some of these girls are already endorsed by newcomer specialist Bill The Hobbyist who writes a monthly article entitled “Newcomers & Fresh Faces” for SEASONED PLAYERS 15 – RELEASES ON DVD FROM TOM BYRON PICTURES JANUARY 27 January 27, 2011 | Sexy Stuff | Comment this Post! | Tom Byron - Big Ass Cheerleaders January 26, 2011; (Van Nuys, CA) – On January 27, Tom Byron Pictures will release “Seasoned Players 15″ on DVD. As recent winner of the 2011 AVN Award for Best MILF Series (marking its third consecutive win), Seasoned Players is a tough series to top. However, Tom Byron raises the bar yet again in “Seasoned Players 15” by inviting an old friend to join. Tom Byron states, “We brought back an absolutely amazing performer for this release. Inari Vachs is the epitome of a Seasoned Player, and with the additions of Zoey Holloway, Alana Evans, Rayveness, and Shay Fox, Seasoned Players 15 is sure to surpass all expectations.” For web-safe stills visit: http://tombyronpictures.com/SeasonedPlayers15Web.zip “Seasoned Players 15″ stays true to it’s theme, showcasing amazing gonzo style with experienced MILF stars. Inari Vachs is back after a hiatus from performing and both her and Tom are eager to reunite. Both holding the past titles of Performer Of The Year from AVN, Vachs and Byron deliver an extremely hot scene. Zoey Holloway returns to the series after her appearance in Seasoned Players 11 and Alana Evans shows how nervous she is to be working with Tom Byron again. In addition, Rayveness and Shay Fox prove most things get better with age in their first appearances with Tom Byron Pictures. The Seasoned Players series has a unique feature as it often brings the industry’s best performers from the past out of retirement and back in front of the camera. With a host and seasoned professional like Tom Byron, it is plain to see why performers like Inari Vachs, Tabitha Stevens, and Kelly Nichols are so willing to return to performing and star in Seasoned Players. Byron has the type of charm to make any girl comfortable and ready for their scene. “His easy going and laid back personality provides a very friendly atmosphere for the ladies to open up in their conversations with him. This one-on-one time before the sex is a major reason why this series continues to have a stranglehold on the Best Milf Series trophy.” – XCritic DreamZone Entertainment Announces Amy Fisher’s Second DVD Release: “Amy Fisher Is Sex” December 27, 2010 | Porn Stars, Sexy Stuff | Comment this Post! | With Her 2nd Release Available For Pre-Order, Amy Fisher Makes Porn Star Status! Tom Byron Pictures December 22, 2010; (Van Nuys, CA) – DreamZone Entertainment is pleased to announce the pending release of “Amy Fisher Is Sex”. This title marks the second foray of Amy Fisher’s professional adult video career. With fantastic reviews on her first all-sex release, Fisher is rising in the ranks to active, performing porn star, making her much more than a one-and-done type of girl. Starring Tommy Gunn, Evan Stone, Jack Lawrence, and Johnny Castle, “Amy Fisher Is Sex ” is available for pre-order and will show you what sex is like with the hottest performers in the adult industry. For the “Amy Fisher Is Sex” box covers visit: http://amyfisher.com/AmyFisherIsSex.jpg http://amyfisher.com/AmyFisherIsSex-SOFT.jpg As with “Deep Inside Amy Fisher”, the goal in “Amy Fisher Is Sex” is to show the intimate appeal between the performers. Fisher tries to spend the day with her co-stars, which you can follow through her interviews during the movie, in order to gain a relationship with them. This results in passionate scenes with high chemistry between the two performers, such as with returning star Tommy Gunn. Fisher and Gunn were so natural together in Deep Inside Amy Fisher, he was called back for the second release. The passion they displayed was as if the viewers were watching real-life lovers, and Fisher could not pass up such unique chemistry. Adult DVD Empire writes, “Deep Inside Amy Fisher is a unique film, because it essentially combines legendary industry-famous performers with one singular complete and total amateur, and because of that it succeeds.” They continue, “it breaks the mold and allows us a view into what it must be like for the average person to get fucked in a professional style. Because of this, I found it to be incredibly hot and an excellent buy.” Fisher states, “I am not slowing down, I’m ready to fulfill my whole contract with Dreamzone. With a tentative 6 more releases coming up, it will be hard to top these first two titles. My fans are dedicated though, and sales from the first volume show there is a big market for my sex tapes.” For more information about Amy Fisher, visit www.AmyFisher.com. Follow Amy on Twitter at www.twitter.com/amyfisherxxx. “POV Cocksuckers 11” RELEASES ON DVD DECEMBER 16 December 16, 2010 | Sexy Stuff | Comment this Post! | See Through The Eyes Of A Porn Star! Tom Byron Pictures December 15, 2010; (Van Nuys, CA) – On December 16, Tom Byron Pictures will release “POV Cocksuckers 11″ on DVD. This complete male point-of-view feature has 11 of the hottest cock-suckers in porn today. Starring Nicki Hunter, Tara Lynn Foxx, Zoey Holloway, Sindee Jennings, Natasha Nice, Charlie Ann, Megan Foxx, Ariella Ferrara, Ashli Orion, Kendra Lee, and Lilith Rose, “POV Cocksuckers 11″ is two and a half hours of pure blow job enjoyment. Read more… “Asseaters Unanimous 22” RELEASES ON DVD DECEMBER 16 December 16, 2010 | Sexy Stuff | Comment this Post! | The Fans Demand! Asseaters Unanimous 22: The All Girl, Interracial Edition! Tom Byron - Asseaters Unanimous 22 December 15, 2010; (Van Nuys, CA) – On December 16, Tom Byron Pictures and Ivan release “Asseaters Unanimous 22” on DVD. Read more… TOM BYRON PICTURES RELEASES TRAILER FOR “BIG ASS CHEERLEADERS 2″ December 16, 2010 | Sexy Stuff | Comment this Post! | Phoenix Marie And Her Cheer Team Tease Fans of Big Ass Cheerleaders With Trailer For Volume 2! Tom Byron - Big Ass Cheerleaders December 13, 2010; (Van Nuys, CA) – www.tombyronpictures.com and Ivan have recently released the trailer for “Big Ass Cheerleaders 2” on YouTube. This is the second addition to “Big Ass Cheerleaders” (nominated for AVN’s “Best Big Butt Release” award), which was also directed by Ivan. Starring Phoenix Marie, Ashli Orion, Tara Lynn Foxx, Allie Haze and Natasha Nice; “Big Ass Cheerleaders 2” shows you what happens when a few slutty cheerleaders run into some horny guys. Lucky for Tom Byron, Tommy Gunn, and Anthony Rosano, all that cheering has got these girls nice and limber. “If you haven’t seen the first Big Ass Cheerleaders then you are still in for a treat,” Says Director Ivan. “Big Ass Cheerleaders 2 has hot stars like Phoenix Marie with amazing asses.” Watch the “Big Ass Cheerleaders 2” trailer: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rBWCqxJjuWU Read more… Penthouse Babes: Sky Taylor April 10, 2010 | GALLERIES, Porn Stars | Comment this Post! | It’s the WEEKEND! Time for a little alone time between you and some of these gorgeous Penthouse Pets and babes… These galleries feature girls who have all the qualities you have come to expect over the years from the featured Penthouse girls… gorgeous, beautiful and talented – everything you could ever hope for! Today’s feature is Sky Taylor who is the star of this wild Daliesque wet dream. This sexy siren tempts us with a bit of panty play and foot worship whiles she dances naked on our crazy Aztec-inspired backdrop and set! Sky Taylor - Penthouse Playboy’s All Naturals: Brittany Montague April 9, 2010 | GALLERIES, Porn Stars | Comment this Post! | Thank you so much for all your comments – it’s clear that our regular AWL readers really enjoyed the sampling we gave in the past couple weeks of Playboy’s 100% all natural babe site “All Naturals”. So – to show you that we ARE listening, we’re going to feature these gorgeous ladies throughout the rest of the month. Today’s feature is sweet Brittany from Washington State who likes hanging out with her friends, traveling, modeling and meeting new people. She loves the color pink and riding on the back of motorcycles. To learn more about this lover of pink check out her interview video in the members area. Brittany Montague - Playboy's All Naturals Too Hot Thursdays: Bossy MILFs (Kendra Secrets) April 8, 2010 | GALLERIES, Porn Stars | Comment this Post! | It’s Thursday – the weekend is almost here. Time to relax, unwind and get your ass beat and your dick sucked by the ‘Net’s HOTTEST, bossiest and pushiest MILFs! Leave it to the folks @ Hustler to get this niche right. Those hot Mommas know what they want in the bedroom (or living room or outdoors or anywhere!) and they aren’t afraid to tell these young studs to DO IT! Watch and enjoy this week as strict boss Kendra Secrets seduces her (not so) little underling! Bossy Milfs - Kendra Secrets Twisty Treat Tuesdays: Cody Love April 6, 2010 | GALLERIES, Porn Stars | Comment this Post! | Spring has SPRUNG and so will YOU this month as we feature a HOT new Twisty’s Treat babe every Tuesday. Twisty’s is the home of the most gorgeous babes in the biz – no ugly chicks GUARANTEED! Today’s Twisty Treat is Cody Love! Choosing the right dong While the majority of dildos basically just look like dicks in different sizes and colors, there’s a wide variation in detail. Some are smooth and featureless, while some have detailed veins and balls. Some are designed to stimulate the G-spot or prostate, or have undulations, bumps, angles or corkscrews for extra sensation. They’re available for all size preferences, from extra thick and stubby, to long and slender, which are good for anal sex. Order Dildos Now dildosYour garden variety sex-shop dildos are usually made out of rubber and/or vinyl, but most quality dildos are made out of silicone. 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Similar variations include ass, butt plugs and dildos that are shaped like stacked spheres, or are wavy enough to simulate the anal bead effect, giving a rectal rollercoaster ride of undulations. Anal beads vary in size, but they have to be large enough to create a distinct impression, or "blip" as they pass through the sphincter. In an average set the beads are .5 to 1.5 inches in diameter at the max. Larger sizes are available (2 to 3 inches in diameter) but we don't recommend them unless the insertee is very experienced with anal play. Some sets are graduated, beginning with smaller beads and increasing in size. This type can be handy for beginners, because you can start with the first few beads and work your way up to the larger ones. Put Them In As always when you are putting something up your butt or someone else's, lube, patience, communication and common sense are key. Lube your partner's asshole liberally (or your own, if you're solo) and warm up by inserting a finger or two to get the ass muscles primed and open. Lubricate the beads and insert them slowly. This can be tricky when everything, including your fingers, is slippery with lube. Grip the string with thumb and finger just below the bead, pulling it taut to hold the bead steady. Place the bead at the anal opening and gently press against it. The receiving partner can bear down slightly to relax the anal sphincter. As the asshole opens, continue pressing. Let the ass close around and "swallow" the bead. If using string type beads, you can push it in further with your finger if you want, or just let the next bead inserted push it higher. [Important: If your set does not have a handle or ring on the end, be sure to leave at least one bead outside the asshole to grip for removal.] Try playing with the first one or two beads by popping them in and out of the sphincter a few times. 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The main purpose of nipple clamps is not so much to inflict pain, but to provide constant, intense nipple stimulation and heightened sensitivity. Many people, both men and women, get some level of erotic response from having their nipples played with or sucked. Nipple clamps provide that stimulus while freeing up your hands and mouth to do other things. They put constant pressure on the nipples, which can be intensified with added weights, vibrators, or manual tugging, and heighten they the nipples' sensitivity during play. Kinds of Clamps In their simplest form, nipple clamps are a variation on an alligator clamp, often with an adjustable spring or locking device. The tips should be covered with cork or soft vinyl or rubber, both for traction and to give some cushioning to protect the skin and tissues. Another type of clamp is based on a forceps design, which is great if you're into doctor/nurse fantasy scenes or medical fetishes. They look like a pair of scissors, and have a locking device between the arms to hold them in place. Tweezer type clamps are just miniature tweezers or tongs encircled by a metal band that slides up their length to tighten them. Their ends should also be covered with rubber or vinyl cushions. Clover clamps are a more complicated apparatus that resembles a pair of pliers with two round, flat pads that compress the nipple. Each of the clamps is attached to a chain in such a way that pulling on it tightens the grip of the clamps. Nipple Fashions A nice accessory for nipple clamps is a chain that attaches them. This not only serves the practical purpose of keeping the clamps together as a set, but also looks and feels hot. The chain adds a little weight, and gives your partner something to tug on to manipulate the clamps. And submissive types can get off on being lead around by the tits. Nipple jewelry combines form and function. These trinkets are mostly for women. 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Deluxe nipple clamps come with mini vibrators attached for really over-the-top stimulation. are a great multipurpose toy as well. The vibrator can be used on many other parts, including the clit and balls, and the clamp can be used to clip them either directly onto those body parts, or onto your underwear so they nestle against your bits. Using Nipple Clamps Nipple clamps need to be applied with care. Take the time to get them properly adjusted and placed. If your nipple clamps have a screw adjustment, tighten it slowly until you achieve a pressure that will hold the clamp in place without causing too much pain. If the clamp has a simple spring mechanism, place the open clamp around the nipple and release slowly, so pressure is applied steadily to the nipple. Don't let it snap shut. The initial pressure of the clamp may will feel intense, and may even be slightly painful for the first couple of minutes. 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